Working in fashion has taught me that dressing well isn’t about being the most stylish person in the room—it’s about being the most self-aware. I started out as a stylist, now I work as a fashion consultant and producer, and over the years I’ve come to realize that clothes do more than make an impression—they communicate how you feel, how you think, and how much you value the space you’re in.Every occasion speaks its own language. For formal events, I always lean toward timeless, well-fitted pieces—something that feels refined but never forced. It’s less about extravagance and more about presence. When you’re polished, people notice, even if they can’t explain why.
For casual settings, comfort and intention should meet halfway. I like effortless looks that still feel put-together—jeans with a crisp shirt, a simple dress with character, or monochrome tones that say “I didn’t try too hard, but I cared.”
And for creative or fashion events—those are the moments I truly enjoy. They allow freedom. You can play with color, texture, or silhouette, and let your outfit tell a bit of your story. The key is authenticity. If it doesn’t feel like you, it won’t work, no matter how trendy it is.
Dressing for different occasions isn’t about following fashion rules—it’s about understanding context and carrying your individuality through every look. When you feel good in what you’re wearing, it changes how you walk, how you smile, how you connect. And that, for me, is the real power of style.
Written by: Tonye Hart